What does a marriage mean? Is it just sharing responsibilities. No it's also sharing each other's goals and aspirations.
A woman needs to decide few things after marriage and put it straight to her husband.
Firstly, is she willing to change her name. If yes then the first thing is to get her pan card, bank accounts and her passport modified immediately with the help of the marriage registration certificate.
Secondly, is she willing to continue with her job. Then better not just extend the post marriage fantasies for too long.
Once she decides upon the two, she should set few targets with her spouse. Like the two wheels of a bicycle go together, husband and wife should be together always. They should sit together and set few targets and decide upon it like buying a car, planning their first baby and buying a new house.
If both are earning, then it's always a better choice to share the investments. The wife can also take a loan and enjoy the tax benefits which would in turn reduce the burden on the man alone.
And, considering separation or any other mishaps which the god must have decided it's always advisable to be a joint owner of the assets purchased and not just be a joint borrower.
Apart from buying a house or a car it's also advisable to invest on gold which in the long run would be appreciating in value and help you in times of crisis. So opening a gold locker would be one right step after marriage.
Once married the men should also update their spouse's insurance policies and other investments.
If the lady chooses to be a home maker then also she can share the burden of the family by taking care of the house and kids in he best possible way. A woman is always a better bargain hunter so she can make the best use of her husband's earning. Instead of spending money on the child's tuitions, she could be a tutor and save on one expense.
Thus, husband and wife are equally responsible for raising their family and children and hence they should equally contribute with their ideas towards a better life.
A woman needs to decide few things after marriage and put it straight to her husband.
Firstly, is she willing to change her name. If yes then the first thing is to get her pan card, bank accounts and her passport modified immediately with the help of the marriage registration certificate.
Secondly, is she willing to continue with her job. Then better not just extend the post marriage fantasies for too long.
Once she decides upon the two, she should set few targets with her spouse. Like the two wheels of a bicycle go together, husband and wife should be together always. They should sit together and set few targets and decide upon it like buying a car, planning their first baby and buying a new house.
If both are earning, then it's always a better choice to share the investments. The wife can also take a loan and enjoy the tax benefits which would in turn reduce the burden on the man alone.
And, considering separation or any other mishaps which the god must have decided it's always advisable to be a joint owner of the assets purchased and not just be a joint borrower.
Apart from buying a house or a car it's also advisable to invest on gold which in the long run would be appreciating in value and help you in times of crisis. So opening a gold locker would be one right step after marriage.
Once married the men should also update their spouse's insurance policies and other investments.
If the lady chooses to be a home maker then also she can share the burden of the family by taking care of the house and kids in he best possible way. A woman is always a better bargain hunter so she can make the best use of her husband's earning. Instead of spending money on the child's tuitions, she could be a tutor and save on one expense.
Thus, husband and wife are equally responsible for raising their family and children and hence they should equally contribute with their ideas towards a better life.
Excellent write up madam. One needs to prepare for married life in many ways. Your write up provides a great guide to economics side of a marriage.
ReplyDeleteExcellent write up madam. One needs to prepare for married life in many ways. Your write up provides a great guide to economics side of a marriage.
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